Im in the same boat as you guys. Wont even let me log on. Played to level 4 on an engineer and wanted to stab myself in the face the entire time. I'm going back to nord-Elementalist and just blowing shit up all the way through to level 20. When i get on i'll see if i can set shit up (its 100g to make a guild and 100g to invite each player).
edit: PLAY AS A NORN. No one fucking up the questing as norn, very few players, no lag.